Simon Says...

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Dear Simon: My boyfriend isn’t telling me about his past relationships. Why?

He’s not worth your time. If your partner is emotionally closed off and reluctant to talk about their past life and relationships, their family, friendships, future goals, it's a sign that they're holding back important information about themselves. It could be that they are trying to keep something in their past hidden, are covering up a problem or issue that could be on-going but has not yet revealed itself in your relationship, and/or they are not being honest about their commitment and intentions for the relationship. Is that really somebody you want to share yourself with if he’s not willing to share his past with you? The answer should be no if you value yourself. Cut line and move on.

Dear Simon: How can I get my grades up this late in the semester?

Perform Better. Checklist: Get organized, make folders for each class and be sure to put ALL of your work from that class in there as soon as you’re done with it. DO NOT miss a class, you will get behind and not be able to catch up. Constantly pay attention and take detailed notes; learning shorthand might help you. Turn in all missing work and retake any tests/quizzes you can. When you get home, take your studying further by learning from other sources. Also avoid procrastinating by talking to and texting friends, unless they’re helping you study. And lastly, talk with your teacher. Although it’s a better idea to have made a connection with your teacher at the beginning of the year, it’s certainly never too late to start!

Dear Simon: How do I make time to do extracurriculars and study?

Just Do Your Best. High school is hard, dude. It’s a great thing if you’re involved in extracurriculars and sports, since they can help you make friends and get into college. But if they’re depriving you of studying time and causing your grades to sink, it might be best to cut ties. You can always pick them back up later!